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orn 5/14/60 in
the great city of NY. T'olar is the 3rd or 4th (he doesn't remember which)
of 19 or 20 (he doesn't remember which) children. Needless to say, T'olar
comes from a very poor family, so poor in fact that they were too poor to
stay anywhere at all, spending most of his youth living with uncle's and
other families all around the United States. As you can guess T'olar is
very used to relocating at a moments notice. The fact that he has been in
Arizona for seventeen years is a major achievement in his life.
Being one of the few children that wound up not being attached to any of
the others, he knew from a very early age that he was destined to leave
the family and make it on his own. So T'olar was forced to get used to
moving around from place to place, after he wound-up attending 11
different schools in 12 years of schooling (mostly in NY and CA).
However, even today T'olar feels that this has made him very independent
and self-sufficient, and he guesses that's a good thing. However T'olar
does have family in New York, Calif. Ohio, St. Thomas. He finally
found a place to stay, Arizona, in 1984, which he now calls home. Working
full time as a Technical Analyst, and attending the University of Phoenix,
majoring in Information Technology. He has completed his B.A. Degree
12/98, after which he plans on continuing on to complete a Masters degree
in Information technology or an MBA with an emphasis in Technology.
Currently "single and looking" he would like to have a happy,
warm, and successful family, which is full of love, wisdom, and
compassion.
Being estranged from his family at an early age, T'olar has developed a
very independent attitude. Understanding that everything depends on him,
he approaches life with an attitude that he must win in life, and his life
will be built by his own efforts. Loving to learn, he always discovers new
and innovative ways to continue to grow. Having the great advantage of not
having a home in which to grow up in, T'olar has developed a very open
approach to life, living, and growing. Included in this approach has been
the reading of many relationship books, personal growth books and self
development books.
A long standing member of the SGI-USA a Buddhist organization devoted to
World Peace through individual happiness, which as greatly contributed to
his development as a person. T'olar has his own way of seeing the world.
Sometimes, it doesn't make a lot of sense to other people, however, he
finds that how he looks at the world is wholesome and healthy, again
contributing to his growth as a person, and a reputation for being very
nice and very friendly. Although, T'olar prefers to take changes slowly,
he does, from time to time have many things on his plate at one time. In
some ways T'olar is very ambitious and is willing to do whatever it takes.
T'olar has a reputation for being a nice person, and has a wide range of
interest, with a great love of learning about new things, ideas, people,
and cultures. T'olar is understanding, in the respect that people are
people and although they may see and do things different from him, or what
he has experienced, he understands that doesn't make them bad or weird
(well maybe a little), just different. Personally he thinks that if we
were all the same then some of us wouldn't be necessary. We are however
all on this planet together....(OK OK T'olar is somewhat of a
philosopher). |
USA
ICQ:
10594649 (TJ)